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==Targeted seduction==
==Targeted seduction==


You can select a character to seduce in their diplomacy menu. You must both be free capable adults, attracted to each other's gender, and not {{iconify|celibate}}. You can no longer seduce your lovers, your former lovers, your parents, or your children past patch version 2.4.5. You cannot seduce your spouse or concubines this way: instead, they can become lovers through random events requiring the Family or Seduction focus, respectively. You cannot seduce more than one person at a time.
你可以在外交菜单中选择一个角色进行引诱。
 
你们都必须是自由的有能力的成年人,被对方的性别所吸引,而不是单身。
你不能再诱惑你的爱人,你以前的爱人,你的父母,或者你的孩子。
你不能用这种方式诱惑你的配偶或小妾: 相反,他们可以分别通过需要家庭或诱惑焦点的随机事件成为情人。
你不能同时诱惑一个以上的人。
If the seduce action is not available in the target's diplomacy screen, you may already be seducing someone else. You can either wait for the previous seduction event to resolve, or you can right-click your own portrait to Stop seducing.
If the seduce action is not available in the target's diplomacy screen, you may already be seducing someone else. You can either wait for the previous seduction event to resolve, or you can right-click your own portrait to Stop seducing.


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** Chance to forgive abduction, increase opinion, decrease opinion, become lover
** Chance to forgive abduction, increase opinion, decrease opinion, become lover


== Strategies ==
== 策略 ==


'''Seduce your future spouse''' to make them a lover, so you have increased opinion and fertility as a couple once you marry.
''' 勾引你的未来配偶''' 是他/她变成你的情人,在成婚后提升态度和生育率
* Don't worry about pregnancy in this case. You can legitimize the child, and your spouse will be happy because they are the child's other parent.
* 不需要担心怀孕。你可以将孩子合法化,并且你的配偶会高兴的
* Make sure your "future spouse" doesn't marry someone else first! Having them in your court or in a betrothal prevents this.
* 确保你的“未来配偶”不会嫁给别人!把对方接到宫廷或者订婚来阻止对方结婚


'''Repeated one-night stands''' give you more chances at pregnancy and leveling up than making someone your steady lover. Choose "love and leave", but immediately make them your seduction target again.
''' 重复一夜情''' 能显著提升怀孕率。选择爱他但是离开,然后第二天立刻重新勾引对方!


'''Have many children''', form lots of [[alliances]], and either:
''' 生很多孩子''', 形成许多 [[ 同盟]], 具体包括:
* Legitimize few, essentially appointing your [[heir]].
* 只合法化少量孩子/[[ 继承人]].
* Legitimize all, and use your large family to [[Advanced marriage guide|get your grandchildren on all the thrones]].
* 全部合法化,然后充分利用大家族的优势 [[Advanced marriage guide|get your grandchildren on all the thrones]].


'''Make your children heirs to foreign titles''' by seducing rulers and heirs. Focus on [[primogeniture]] and [[gavelkind]] titles, as these are the most predictable. You can also try to make your children be junior heirs for some [[elective gavelkind]] titles.
''' 使你的孩子具有外国头衔''' 通过勾引统治者或者继承人. 关注 [[ 长子继承制]] [[ 分封继承制]] 的头衔, 因为这些的继承可以预测. 你也可以让你的孩子成为 [[ 选举继承制]] 头衔的竞选者.


'''Make your children claimants on foreign titles'''. You may be able to press their claims for easy expansion. If you [[education|educate]] them with the target realm's [[culture]] and good ruler traits, unhappy vassals may support them as [[faction]] claimants. High diplomacy and {{iconify|brave}} also improve their chances of becoming [[adventurers]], and you can join their adventure wars.
'''Make your children claimants on foreign titles'''. You may be able to press their claims for easy expansion. If you [[education|educate]] them with the target realm's [[culture]] and good ruler traits, unhappy vassals may support them as [[faction]] claimants. High diplomacy and {{iconify|brave}} also improve their chances of becoming [[adventurers]], and you can join their adventure wars.


=== For women ===
=== 对于女性 ===


'''Safe practice''': Women who do not want to produce bastard children can target eunuchs [[File:Eunuch.png]] or seduce men while {{iconify|pregnant}}.
''' 安全''': 女性不想有私生子,可以勾引[[File:Eunuch.png]] 或者 {{iconify|pregnant}} 时进行勾引.


'''Cuckoldry''': Women may sleep around for fertility and [[Traits#Congenital|eugenics]] while planning to pass off children as their husband's. It is best to choose a {{iconify|trusting}} husband for this, but if you have high intrigue, you can usually pull this off against any low-intrigue husband.
''' 给丈夫一顶原谅帽''': 女性可以让她的丈夫不知道自己被绿了. 最好选择具有{{iconify|trusting}} 的丈夫, 或者当你具有较高的阴谋属性,也可以愚弄阴谋属性很低的丈夫


'''Legitimizing''': Alternatively, women may try to arrange for their children to inherit titles from various fathers. This requires each biological father to ''acknowledge but not legitimize'', so you can then legitimize the child into your own dynasty. To minimize the chances of the child being denounced, you should focus on fathers who are {{iconify|Just}}, {{iconify|Kind}}, and not zealous Christians. You should especially avoid non-dynastic men over 50 who are desperate for a son, as they are just as likely to legitimize the child into their own dynasty.
''' 合法化''': 女性可以让自己的孩子具有其父亲的头衔继承权。这需要被勾引的对方选择 '' 承认是我的孩子但是不合法化'', 之后你可以将孩子合法化进你的家族。为了最小化对方否认孩子的概率,你应该勾引那些具备{{iconify|Just}}, {{iconify|Kind}} ,并且不是狂热基督徒的人物。你应该尤其注意避免勾引50岁以上并没有孩子的领主,因为他们很有可能直接选择合法化私生子


The risks and costs of the latter strategy differ depending on whether you are married. If unmarried, will lose 50 piety for becoming pregnant, which may interfere with legitimizing the children (costs 20 piety). If married, your husband must find out ({{iconify|paranoid}} husbands are best for this), and you will be known as an ''adulteress'' upon the husband's discovery.
这个策略的开销取决于你是否结婚。如果你没结婚,你会因为未婚先孕损失50点虔诚,并在之后合法化的时候花费20点虔诚。如果你结婚了,你的丈夫必须具备足够的阴谋水平来发现孩子的亲生父亲(具有{{iconify|paranoid}} 的丈夫是个不错的选择)并且你会得到一个淫妇的debuff


=== For men ===
=== 对于男性 ===


One strategy is to seduce unmarried women in ''other'' courts (so you're safe if someone finds a note), and then invite or marry them into your court once they are pregnant (so the children are under your control). <small>Note that as of 2.4.3, "unimportant" lowborn characters in a large court will die quickly, and being your lover or pregnant with your child does not qualify them as important. Getting them married does.</small>
One strategy is to seduce unmarried women in ''other'' courts (so you're safe if someone finds a note), and then invite or marry them into your court once they are pregnant (so the children are under your control). <small>Note that as of 2.4.3, "unimportant" lowborn characters in a large court will die quickly, and being your lover or pregnant with your child does not qualify them as important. Getting them married does.</small>


Sleeping with unmarried women, or wives of paranoid and high-intrigue men, gives you the highest chance of the option to declare the child yours.
勾引未婚女性,或者具有{{iconify|paranoid}} 丈夫的女性,可以让你有最高机会承认孩子是你的


As the known father, you can legitimize bastard children at birth for free. You can also legitimize children later by spending piety, like mothers can, but you must ensure the child is under your control (they will normally be in the mother's court).
As the known father, you can legitimize bastard children at birth for free. You can also legitimize children later by spending piety, like mothers can, but you must ensure the child is under your control (they will normally be in the mother's court).


You can also aim to increase the size of your dynasty by creating cuckold children in other marriages. If the husband is trusting or has much lower intrigue than his wife, the child will usually be considered theirs and legitimate.
你可以通过勾引同家族的已婚女性扩大家族的规模. 注意苦主的特质({{iconify|trusting}}/{{iconify|paranoid}} )以及阴谋能力,不要被发现了!


If you want to only have bastard children (e.g. to choose one to legitimize as your heir), consider marrying an infertile woman (celibate or over 45).
如果你只想有私生子后代(比如使用选举继承法时可以只把继承人合法化),考虑和不能生育的女性结婚( 年龄大于45)


=== Staying safe ===
=== Staying safe ===
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'''Turn the Way of Life DLC off'''.  No one can choose the seduction focus (or any other focus) and target your wife.  There are still events in the vanilla game which can cause your wife to be unfaithful, especially if she is a ruler with a ranking higher or equal to count. It is also possible to [[Game_rules#AI_Seduction|disable AI seduction using a game rule]] while leaving the rest of the DLC enabled.
'''Turn the Way of Life DLC off'''.  No one can choose the seduction focus (or any other focus) and target your wife.  There are still events in the vanilla game which can cause your wife to be unfaithful, especially if she is a ruler with a ranking higher or equal to count. It is also possible to [[Game_rules#AI_Seduction|disable AI seduction using a game rule]] while leaving the rest of the DLC enabled.


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Seduction is a DLC icon Way of Life.pngfocus on the arts of attraction. It enables the "seduce" diplomacy option, focusing your seduction attempts on a specific character.

The seduction focus is useful for increasing opinion and gaining lovers. It allows both men and women to produce large numbers of bastard children, which can be legitimized into the player's dynasty and inherit titles from both parents.

Seduction skill

Success in many seduction events gives a chance to "level up" in skill: first to Aspiring Seducer, then Seducer, then optionally to Master seducer.png or Master seductress.png. Each level significantly improves chance of success in both targeted seduction and random seduction events. In the final event, you also have the option of taking Hedonist.png or declining the lifestyle traits; these options both leave you at the Seducer level.

Level Type Sex appeal Intrigue Diplomacy
Aspiring seducer Character modifier +15 sex appeal
Seducer Character modifier +30 sex appeal +1 intrigue
Master seducer.png
or
Master seductress.png
Lifestyle trait +50 sex appeal +2 intrigue +1 diplomacy

Targeted seduction

你可以在外交菜单中选择一个角色进行引诱。 你们都必须是自由的有能力的成年人,被对方的性别所吸引,而不是单身。 你不能再诱惑你的爱人,你以前的爱人,你的父母,或者你的孩子。 你不能用这种方式诱惑你的配偶或小妾:相反,他们可以分别通过需要家庭或诱惑焦点的随机事件成为情人。 你不能同时诱惑一个以上的人。 If the seduce action is not available in the target's diplomacy screen, you may already be seducing someone else. You can either wait for the previous seduction event to resolve, or you can right-click your own portrait to Stop seducing.

After selecting a love interest, you will occasionally make a "move": either an attempt to increase opinion or an attempt to bed. Your character automatically makes this choice based on their personal opinion of you. Personal opinion is similar to opinion, but does not take state diplomacy, laws or any other such state concerns into account.

  • With personal opinion below 0, the seducer will always attempt to woo.
  • With personal opinion between 0 and 39, there is a 61% chance to attempt to woo and a 39% chance to attempt to bed.
  • With personal opinion 40+, the seducer will always attempt to bed.

Moves normally happen every 20–40 days. If the seducer is a man and his love interest is a queen+ (or wife/consort of a king+), moves happen every 60–90 days instead. Large distances also make moves less frequent.

If some situations, the moves may not be successful in creating an opportunity, so you may be prompted to stop seducing or asked if you want to continue the seduction attempt. (Unlike swaying, once seduction has been successful, the love interest either becomes a lover, or you leave them. The seduction action is then complete, and you are free to pursue someone else.)

Attempts to woo

Wooing attempts come in three flavors: "love letter", "gift", and "gossip". In each case, the wooed character can choose to be attracted (+25 for 60 months), repelled (-15 for 24 months), or silent.

AI response depends not on current opinion, but on traits: the personality of the target, the "seduction level" of the seducer, and relative attractiveness (genetic traits).

Attempts to bed

There are three flavors with varying complexity. Success always depends on seduction level, personal opinion (boosts at +20, +40, and +60), and whether or not the target is a close relative, (decreased chance of success unless target is Messalian Nestorian Heresy.png, Zoroastrian.png, Arbitrary.png, Lustful.png, or Hedonist.png) but can also depend on the choices you make.

Dance

Dancing is the simplest flavor. The target gets two chances to accept or reject. If encouraged, the seducer can then choose to increase opinion (+20 yearning for 24 months) or attempt a tumble. Again, the target can accept or rebuff, with AI response depending on opinion and the seducer's level.

Kitchen meeting

In this flavor, you make a choice that affects your chance of success.

  • Confess love: good on targets who are Kind.png, Honest.png, Zealous.png, Shy.png, Trusting.png, age under 25
  • Lewd suggestion: good on targets who are Hedonist.png, Lustful.png, Gregarious.png, Deceitful.png. Bad on women under 25 unless they are lustful.
  • Quote poetry: good on targets who are Poet.png, Scholar.png, Mystic.png, high learning, high theology education. Half base chance of other options.
  • Sexy whisper: highest chance of success, but only available to masters of seduction Master seductress.png Master seducer.png
  • Ask about star sign: good on targets who are Mystic.png, Erudite.png, Scholar.png, or fellow members of the Hermetics society. The seducer must be a member of the Hermetics. More likely to succeed if the seducer is a rank 3 or higher Hermetic.

Court picnic

The picnic flavor is the most complex. Hoping to get the target alone, you have three choices with different risks and rewards.

  • Find an ally
    • The friend can assist (resulting in choices similar to the kitchen meeting), refuse, or tip off the target's spouse
  • Leave a note
    • Everyone in the target's court has a chance to enter a lottery to find the note:
      • 100%: The target
      • 50%: Anyone who already has an opinion modifier indicating they suspect you (e.g. "Seducing my spouse")
      • 10%: Spouse, father, or liege
      • 2%: Other courtiers
    • If found by a spouse who is also a ruler, you will be imprisoned, and you probably won't be able to ransom your way out (-100 "rival" and -25 "chasing spouse")
  • Flirt discretely
    • Opinion boost without tumble

Tumbling

As with other WoL "unprotected sex" events, there is a chance of pregnancy:

  • Only if the man is not an eunuch, and the woman is under 45 and has at least 3 health
  • Doubled for each character with at least one of the following fertility-increasing traits: Underhanded rogue.pngCharismatic negotiator.pngGrey eminence.png Thrifty clerk.pngFortune builder.pngMidas touched.png Strong.png Hedonist.png Lustful.png
  • Halved for each character with at least one of the following fertility-decreasing traits: Homosexual.pngEunuch.png Scholarly theologian.pngMastermind theologian.png Stressed.pngDepressed.pngIll.pngPneumonic.png Leper.pngSyphilitic.pngInfirm.pngIncapable.png Inbred.pngWeak.png Celibate.pngChaste.png Mangled.pngRecently maimed.png Dysentery.pngFood poisoning.pngCancer.pngDancing plague.png

Along with a 50% chance to transmit certain diseases:

  • Only if one of the characters is infected with Lover's Pox, Great Pox, or Aztec Disease

After the wild night, you get a choice about how to continue the relationship:

  • Make them your lover, for a +40 opinion boost and a moderate ongoing chance of pregnancy
  • Cease seduction
  • Continue seduction (by re-selecting them the next day)

You also get a hidden level up event:

  • Chance to gain Lustful.png (or lose Chaste.png)
  • Chance to level up seduction skill
  • Chance to level up intrigue education
  • Chance to gain 'court tomcat' or 'court vixen' character modifier

There may be a chance of discovery and scandal; see below.

Scandal

After a tumble, a courtier of the seduced target's court might notice if:

  • Is an adult, not blinded, not leading armies, not a prisoner, and does not have a regent
  • Is not a spouse or concubine of either paramour
  • Either:
    • Suspects the seducer (opinion modifiers "Seducing my friend", "Seducing my child", or "Seducing my spouse")
    • Both:
      • Has a reason to watch the seducer or target (liege, rival, close relative, lover, or suspects the seducer)
      • Has intrigue skill at least as high as both the seducer and the target

Unlike the risk in the "leave a note to meet by the stream" event, the courtier noticing here does not have to be at the same location.

One random eligible character gets a 25% chance to notice. If the character suspects the seducer or beats both paramours by 3 intrigue, they get a 50% chance instead.

A character who notices can:

  • Go public (likely if Zealous.png)
  • Let it pass (likely if Kind.png) (never, if rival of either character)
  • Blackmail the seducer (for 20% of yearly income) (likely if Greedy.png) (cannot blackmail own children or unmarried men in minor scandals) (cannot blackmail if spouse or consort of either character)

The effects of a publicized scandal are generally worse for the seducer, for women, and for married characters. If there are multiple reasons for a relationship to be scandalous, all effects apply, with the exception of the effects below "close relative" when it applies.

Character Effects if seducer Effects if seduced
Both male
  • -500 prestige
  • -250 piety
  • 20 years Known Sodomite (general_opinion = -10, church_opinion = -10)
  • 20 years Known Sodomite
Both female
  • -100 prestige
  • -50 piety

None

The older character
Age difference ≥ 25
  • 5 years Cradle Robber (-5 general opinion)
Priest, monk, or nun
Christian
  • 20 years Adulterous Priest (-5 general opinion, -10 church opinion)
  • -100 piety
  • 20 years Adulterous Priest (-5 general opinion, -10 church opinion)
Close relative
  • If not Zoroastrian or Messalian (initial divine marriage religions only)
    • Incestuous Adulterer or Incestuous Adulteress
    • -100 prestige
    • -50 piety
    • Break [skip everything below]
  • Regardless of religion(!)
    • Incestuous Adulterer (-10 general opinion, -10 church opinion) or
    • Incestuous Adulteress (-20 general opinion, -20 church opinion)
    • Break
Married man
  • If not Pagan:
    • 20 years Adulterer (-5 general opinion, -5 church opinion)
  • Regardless of religion:
    • 20 years Adulterer (-5 general opinion, -5 church opinion)
Woman
  • 20 years Adulteress (-10 general opinion, -10 church opinion)
  • -50 piety (-100 if married)
  • 20 years Adulteress (-10 general opinion, -10 church opinion)
Man
Seduced a female ruler
  • Prestige gain based on woman's rank:
    • +25 for a countess, +50 for a duchess, +100 for a queen, +200 for an empress

N/A

Random events

  • Flirting at confession (if Christian)
  • Seduce guard (if attracted to men)
    • If you choose to "make him a squire", a new lover appears at your court with the traits Attractive.png and Strong.png.
    • If you choose to "make him your bodyguard", you gain the character modifier "Bodyguard Lover", giving +1 martial and +10% plot discovery chance.
    • Chance of Lover's Pox, Cruel, Pregnancy
  • Seduce maid (if attracted to women)
    • If you choose to "make her a lady", a new lover appears at your court with the traits Attractive.png and Quick.png.
    • If you choose to "make her a spy", you gain the character modifier "Maidservant Lover", giving +1 intrigue and +10% plot discovery chance.
    • Chance of Lover's Pox, Cruel.png, Pregnancy
  • Seduce rose bush (if Lunatic.png and attracted to women)
    • 25% chance of Scarred.png
    • If male, 50% chance to be followed by a baby with the Attractive.png trait being found in the garden. You will have the choice to declare the child yours.
  • Seduce centaur (if Lunatic.png and attracted to men)
  • Seduce jailer (if female and imprisoned)
    • Chance of discovery or escape
  • Seduce concubine
    • Chance to forgive abduction, increase opinion, decrease opinion, become lover

策略

勾引你的未来配偶 是他/她变成你的情人,在成婚后提升态度和生育率

  • 不需要担心怀孕。你可以将孩子合法化,并且你的配偶会高兴的
  • 确保你的“未来配偶”不会嫁给别人!把对方接到宫廷或者订婚来阻止对方结婚

重复一夜情能显著提升怀孕率。选择爱他但是离开,然后第二天立刻重新勾引对方!

生很多孩子, 形成许多 同盟, 具体包括:

使你的孩子具有外国头衔 通过勾引统治者或者继承人. 关注 长子继承制分封继承制 的头衔, 因为这些的继承可以预测. 你也可以让你的孩子成为 选举继承制 头衔的竞选者.

Make your children claimants on foreign titles. You may be able to press their claims for easy expansion. If you educate them with the target realm's culture and good ruler traits, unhappy vassals may support them as faction claimants. High diplomacy and Brave.png also improve their chances of becoming adventurers, and you can join their adventure wars.

对于女性

安全: 女性不想有私生子,可以勾引Eunuch.png 或者 Pregnant.png时进行勾引.

给丈夫一顶原谅帽: 女性可以让她的丈夫不知道自己被绿了. 最好选择具有Trusting.png 的丈夫, 或者当你具有较高的阴谋属性,也可以愚弄阴谋属性很低的丈夫

合法化: 女性可以让自己的孩子具有其父亲的头衔继承权。这需要被勾引的对方选择 承认是我的孩子但是不合法化, 之后你可以将孩子合法化进你的家族。为了最小化对方否认孩子的概率,你应该勾引那些具备Just.png, Kind.png,并且不是狂热基督徒的人物。你应该尤其注意避免勾引50岁以上并没有孩子的领主,因为他们很有可能直接选择合法化私生子

这个策略的开销取决于你是否结婚。如果你没结婚,你会因为未婚先孕损失50点虔诚,并在之后合法化的时候花费20点虔诚。如果你结婚了,你的丈夫必须具备足够的阴谋水平来发现孩子的亲生父亲(具有Paranoid.png 的丈夫是个不错的选择)并且你会得到一个淫妇的debuff

对于男性

One strategy is to seduce unmarried women in other courts (so you're safe if someone finds a note), and then invite or marry them into your court once they are pregnant (so the children are under your control). Note that as of 2.4.3, "unimportant" lowborn characters in a large court will die quickly, and being your lover or pregnant with your child does not qualify them as important. Getting them married does.

勾引未婚女性,或者具有Paranoid.png 丈夫的女性,可以让你有最高机会承认孩子是你的

As the known father, you can legitimize bastard children at birth for free. You can also legitimize children later by spending piety, like mothers can, but you must ensure the child is under your control (they will normally be in the mother's court).

你可以通过勾引同家族的已婚女性扩大家族的规模.注意苦主的特质(Trusting.png/Paranoid.png )以及阴谋能力,不要被发现了!

如果你只想有私生子后代(比如使用选举继承法时可以只把继承人合法化),考虑和不能生育的女性结婚(年龄大于45)

Staying safe

Avoid scandal by finding or creating opportunities where no character is eligible to notice. In particular, your intrigue skill or your target's intrigue skill should exceed that of everyone in the target's court who is the target's {liege, parent, child, or sibling}.

Don't leave a note if seducing the unlanded spouse of a ruler, as this evidence can land you in prison. Also be wary of leaving a note if the target is important to you. If another character finds it, they will start watching you (Seducing my friend, etc), making it unsafe to continue pursuing the target.

Protect yourself and your children against plots. Your spouse should have low intrigue, and preferably be Kind.png or Honest.png so they cannot start a murder plot. Ideally your spymaster has high intrigue (to improve plot discovery chance), high opinion of your children, and high AI honor.

Avoid being cuckolded

Rulers have several reasons to care about their spouse's fidelity. You may be concerned for the health of your spouse, hoping for predictable succession, or simply jealous.

Of particular concern (to male rulers) is a wife becoming pregnant with another man's child. This can be important with gavelkind succession, or if you have positive genetic traits you want your children to inherit. If you have low intrigue skill or are Trusting.png, you're unlikely to even find out whether your wife's children are your own.

Here are some tips for ensuring your wife's fidelity:

Avoid marrying women who are:

  • Attractive.png: they are very likely to be targeted for seduction, though they do tend to reject attempts.
  • Lustful.png: they are likely to fall for seduction attempts. On the flip-side, lustful increases fertility.

Marry a woman who is:

  • unlikely to be targeted. (AI rulers will never target women who are Chaste.png, Ugly.png, Dwarf.png, Inbred.png, Imbecile.png, Clubfooted.png, Harelip.png, Hunchback.png. However, this might cause congenital traits to find their way into your dynasty!)
  • a lesbian. (Homosexual.png women will never cheat on you with another man. They may sleep with other women, but they will not get pregnant this way. On the flipside, they also have reduced fertility. A lustful lesbian is a good compromise as they still have +5% fertility.)
  • "rejecting seduction attempts". (Women with this modifier will not cheat on you. The modifier does however wear off.)

Become your wife's lover. AI rulers will never try to seduce a character who has a lover and isn't (lustful, Hedonist.png, a master of seduction, or a ruler using the seduction focus).

Imprison your wife. Women in jail cannot cheat on you. Their skills still contribute to your state attributes, though their diplomacy skill will be reduced.

Assign your wife to lead troops. Characters leading troops cannot seduce or be seduced. This is only possible under a few circumstances.

Eliminate seducers from the realm. AI rulers only seduce within the same realm. You may be able to kill, castrate, imprison, or unland them. For direct vassals, you can instead appoint them as commanders and have them constantly lead troops.

Turn the Way of Life DLC off. No one can choose the seduction focus (or any other focus) and target your wife. There are still events in the vanilla game which can cause your wife to be unfaithful, especially if she is a ruler with a ranking higher or equal to count. It is also possible to disable AI seduction using a game rule while leaving the rest of the DLC enabled.